It is indeed very surprising how some people push through with something they dream about having and doing even if it makes them sacrifice other people's feelings and impressions towards them. I have this recent experience with my sister-in-law whom has recently begun to be consistent in her habit of borrowing money from
me and my husband. This bothers me so because we only have enough money for the period covered by our salary and if we do keep extra; it is in very small amounts that we keep for emergency purposes. I am really dismayed by what is happening with our family come to think that I face this inconsiderate person everyday because we live in the same house. I understand her situation, but still I am against her actions as it is becoming more and more bothersome and habit creating. My worst fear is that she might create a mental note that it is but alright to the two of us whenever she borrows money and returns it back whenever she wanted even if she came up with a date that we both agreed to. It hurts me so that we have to experience this turmoil because we were not like this before. I don't know if I can keep up with this attitude- full of inconsideration, manipulation and insensitivity. Slowly I am getting tired of what is happening; soon I will take action and I hope I do it with wisdom and composure. Till next blog readers.
Mommy in Turmoil
